to start from the root of the shaft all the way up to the head. The vagina is called y oni in Sanskrit and loosely translates to "a sacred space." In Tantra philosophy, we approach the vagina from a place of the utmost love and respect. One way to do this is through the lingam massage. Lie on your back in a comfortable place with a pillow under your hips, your knees up, and your feet on the ground. As part of my work as a sex and Tantra coach, I'm helping to modernize the ancient secrets in the Kama Sutra. Despite her noble intentions, exchanging money for sexual contact is illegal in New York. While clitoral stimulation is great foreplay for sexual intercourse, a body massage or tantric breast massage is a great warm-up for the yoni massage. You can use your fingernails gently on his testicles, or pull them slightly.